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Stages of Oedipus complex with examples

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  • February 1, 2022
Stages of Oedipus complex with examples

Introduction

Oedipus complex is something that many children go through in their early childhood. It is a theory derived from Sigmund Freud, which discusses children’s affection toward a parent of the opposite sex. This blog covers everything about the Oedipus complex, its stages, symptoms, and real-life examples. Keep reading ahead to learn more!

What Is Oedipus Complex?

The Oedipus complex is a concept developed by Sigmund Freud. It refers to children’s emotions and feelings toward their parents, particularly the parent of the opposite sex. The term derives from the play Oedipus Rex, written by Sophocles. In this play, Oedipus unknowingly murders his father and marries his mother. According to Freud, all humans experience this at some point in childhood, but it passes before we become aware of it for most of us.

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While this process in psychoanalysis is considered normal, it is usually very harmful in our society. We live in a culture that generally encourages people to be as independent as possible, posing problems for children who try to form close bonds with their parents. To prevent children from seeing their parents as competitors for their parent’s affection or attention, they are taught from an early age that these feelings are unacceptable.

What Is Freud’s Theory of the Oedipus Complex?

The Oedipus complex is a concept in psychoanalysis describing a child’s desire for their parent of the opposite sex and simultaneous rivalry with the same-sex parent. Sigmund Freud introduced the idea in his book Interpretation of Dreams (1899). Sigmund Freud introduced the concept and coined the term Oedipus complex based on Greek mythology, killing his father and marrying his mother. The child directs these feelings toward their parents due to the unconscious perception that they are of the same sex. This psychological conflict among children settles on its own between the ages of three to six. 

Freud believed that all children have sexual feelings toward their parents of the opposite sex. Thus, children will often identify with one parent over another by gaining love or emulating that parent. The term is”Electra complex” for the girls; for boys, the name of the complex is “Oedipus.” He also believed that these feelings were repressed as a part of normal sexual development as a person grew into adulthood. 

What Are the Stages of the Oedipus Complex?

According to Sigmund Freud, there are five stages of psychosexual development that lead to the Oedipus complex:

1. Oral Stage

During the oral stage (birth to 18 months), babies use their mouths to explore the world around them. They use their gums for teething and their tongues to taste and touch different objects. 

2. Anal Stage

Children learn about independence during the anal stage (18 months to 3 years). They begin toilet training at this stage and learn how to control their bowels, which is also when children become interested in possessions and privacy. 

3. Phallic Stage

The phallic stage is the most critical stage of psychosexual development in children. According to Freud, the Oedipal complex is a stage in psychosexual development that most males go through during the phallic stage of development, between ages 3 and 6.

4. Latency

This stage lasts from 5 years to around 12 years of age. During this stage, the child becomes dormant but has healthy feelings towards the opposite sex.

5. Genital Stage

The genital stage is the last stage of psychosexual development. This stage occurs during puberty and results in active sexual attraction towards the opposite sex.

What Are the Symptoms of the Oedipus Complex?

There are few Oedipal complex symptoms as powerful as a child’s love for their parents. If you ask a child who their favourite parent is, they will probably say “Mommy” or “Daddy.” No matter what, children tend to favour one parent over the other.

One of the most common symptoms of the Oedipus complex is a child’s fantasy about their parents’ love life. For example, children often feel jealous because they want their parents’ attention so much. Thus, the child imagines how their parents would spend time with them if only the parent didn’t have to work or was home early from work.

Some other common symptoms of the Oedipus complex includes:

  • Jealousy towards the male parent
  • Child insisting on sleeping in between parents
  • The desired parent has an intense possessiveness (generally the female parent).
  • Irrational hatred towards the male parent.
  • Protectiveness towards the female parent.
  • Attraction towards older people.

What Are the Examples of Oedipus Complex in Literature?

The Oedipus Complex is a normal part of development. Still, it can become problematic if the child feels anger and hatred towards the parent of the opposite sex and desires to replace them in the family structure. This complex is evident in many works of great literature, and in this segment, we will look at some examples.

  • In Sophocles’ Oedipus Rex, Oedipus unknowingly kills his father Laius and marries his mother, Jocasta. He then finds out that he is their son and the King of Thebes.
  • Hamlet unknowingly kills his father Claudius and marries his mother, Gertrude, in Shakespeare’s Hamlet. He then finds out that he is their son and Prince of Denmark.
  • In Milton’s Paradise Lost, Adam unknowingly kills his son Abel and marries his daughter, Eve. He then finds out that he is their father and the King of Eden.

How to Help People with Oedipus Complex?

If someone has the Oedipus complex, they believe that love is a form of competition, and aggression and control are the basis of attraction between males and females. Many people with this condition also believe that not love but power and struggles are the basis of relationships between a mother and her child, making it difficult for people who suffer from the Oedipus complex to forge loving, lasting relationships in adulthood. 

If you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, or lack of self-worth, these could be the most common symptoms of the Oedipus complex. Treatment for this condition can include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and medication and alternative therapies such as hypnotherapy, meditation, and cognitive restructuring.

Counselling at the UWC is an opportunity for you to explore your Oedipus complex in a safe and supportive environment. Trained Counsellors listen to you carefully, lead you through psychodynamic processes such as free association, and help you arrive at insights about different aspects of your condition. Learn more here.

Conclusion

The Oedipus complex is more than just a psychodynamic theory. It has evolved into a sociological theory as well. The person has no control over the complex, which leads to learning about sexuality, hostility, and guilt. The key to dealing with it is to channel the negative energy towards something positive.

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