Question 1

1. What is a Compulsive Liar?

Accepted Answer

A compulsive liar tells lies out of habit, often for no reason or personal gain at all. They lie uncontrollably about everything, large or small.

Question 2

2. What are the Signs of a Compulsive Liar?

Accepted Answer

1. Contradictory storiesn2. Becoming angry and defensiven3. Quick yet vague answers.

Question 3

3. What is the Test of a Compulsive Liar?

Accepted Answer

1. They have gotten into trouble for telling lies previously.n2. They often tell unnecessary lies.n3 They lie continually to cover up their original lies.n4. They avoid the question, attempt to change the topic, or flee the scene when they get caught.n5. You feel they have no control over their lies.n6. They tell lies for no apparent gain.n7. They worry a lot about the consequences of lying and fear getting caught.n8. Their lies typically get them either attention or sympathy.n9. Their lies only become more fanciful with time.n10. They avoid any confrontation.

Question 4

4. How to Deal if Your Partner is a Compulsive Liar?

Accepted Answer

1. Expect denial.nA compulsive liar’s knee-jerk reaction to confrontation about their habit is going to be denial. They may go overboard and lie further to avoid the conflict. They will deny the accusation and act angry while pretending to be shocked at the absurdity of your argument.n2. Stay calm.nIt is natural to lose yourself in anger as your partner’s habit erodes your trust in them and adversely affects your relationship, but it is paramount that you don’t let your rage get the better of you. As irritating as it may be, try to be considerate and supportive, but firm and assertive.n3. Don’t engage their lies.nIf you notice the person is lying, do not engage them. Question what they’re saying, and it may persuade the person to drop the lie without further pursuit. If you don’t want a full-blown confrontation either, try to find subtle non-engaging ways to tell them that you know they’re lying. You can also let them know you have no interest in continuing the conversation after they start being dishonest.n4. Remember that it’s not personal.nIt can be very challenging not to be offended at their lies, especially since they’re your significant other, but you should keep in mind that their habit has nothing to do with you. There may be an underlying cause like a personality disorder, low self-esteem, or some traumatic childhood event. If it helps, try to focus on the fact that there is no manipulative or malicious intention behind their lies.

Question 5

5. Dealing with the Lies and Lying Ways of Your Partner

Accepted Answer

1. Express your concerns.n2. Suggest professional assistance.n3. Treatment of a Compulsive Liar